Proposal in Positano: the do's and don'ts

Hey there, lovebirds!

So, you've decided to pop the big question in one of the most swoon-worthy spots on earth – Positano on the Amalfi Coast. As a portrait photographer who's captured countless "she said yes!" moments here, I've seen the good, the bad, and the downright cringeworthy. To help you nail this once-in-a-lifetime moment, here are some do's and don'ts for making your proposal absolutely perfect. Grab a cappuccino, relax, and let's dive in!

The Do's

1. Do Plan Ahead

Positano is breathtakingly beautiful, but it’s also a tourist hotspot. Plan your proposal timing and location carefully. Early mornings or late evenings tend to be quieter and more intimate. Plus, the lighting is just divine – perfect for those post-engagement photos!

2. Do Choose a Stunning Spot

Positano is packed with picturesque spots. Whether it’s on the beach, at a scenic overlook, or in a charming venue, pick a place that has personal meaning or is just drop-dead gorgeous. My personal fave? The viewpoint from Via Cristoforo Colombo. It’s iconic and oh-so-romantic, albeit can be pretty crowded at times.

3. Do Hire a Photographer (Hint, Hint)

This is a moment you’ll want to remember forever. Having a professional photographer discreetly capturing the moment will give you beautiful memories to cherish and share. Plus, we photographers have ninja-like stealth skills. You won’t even know we’re there!

4. Do Make It Personal

Incorporate elements that are meaningful to your relationship. Maybe it’s a special song playing in the background, or perhaps a little speech about your journey together. Personal touches make the proposal uniquely yours and extra special.

5. Do Have a Plan for After

Celebrate your newly-engaged status with a plan. A cozy dinner at a seaside restaurant, a bottle of bubbly, or a stroll through the winding streets of Positano. The proposal is just the beginning – make the whole day unforgettable.

The Don'ts

1. Don’t Overcomplicate It

Simple can be stunning. You don’t need a flash mob or fireworks (though, if that’s your thing, go for it!). Sometimes the most heartfelt proposals are the simplest. Focus on the moment and your connection.

2. Don’t Stress About Perfection

Things might not go exactly as planned – and that’s okay! The charm of Positano is in its relaxed, effortless beauty. If the unexpected happens, just roll with it. It’ll be a fun story to tell later.

3. Don’t Forget the Ring

This might sound like a no-brainer, but in the excitement, you’d be surprised what can slip your mind. Double-check that you have the ring (and that it’s safely tucked away), or the box (if it's not a giant thing giving away what's about to happen!) before you head out.

4. Don’t Ignore the Weather

Positano is known for its stunning views, but those views come with a Mediterranean climate. Check the weather forecast and have a backup plan if things look iffy. A rainy day can still be magical with the right attitude and a cozy spot. 

5. Don’t Be Too Public (Unless She Loves That)

Some people love a grand gesture in front of a crowd, while others prefer a more private moment. Know your partner and choose a setting that suits their personality. The last thing you want is for them to feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed.

A Little Parting Advice

Remember, this moment is about the two of you and your love story. Whether it’s a grand affair or a quiet, intimate proposal, the most important thing is that it reflects your relationship and makes you both happy. So, take a deep breath, enjoy the stunning backdrop of Positano, and get ready for a magical moment.

And hey, if you need a photographer who knows all the secret spots and best angles, you know where to find me! 😉

I'll see you when you kneel,
Your Amalfi Coast's Resident Romantic Photographer